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I live in my EX & his new wife’s granny flat – people say it’s a ‘3-person marriage’ but it’s just better for our kids

A MUM-OF-THREE shared the unique co-parenting situation she found herself in.

Katie revealed that she lives in a granny flat located in the garden of her ex-husband and his new wife’s home.

A man and two women in matching pajamas pose together in front of a fireplace.

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TikTok user Katie shared the unique living situation she found herself in after her divorceCredit: tiktok/@katiekatekatelynn

In her viral video, the TikTok user, who amassed 5.2 million views, explained the set-up to her followers.

She revealed that her ex-husband Evan, who she shares three kids with, and his new wife Megan invited her to move on to the property to co-parent.

Her flat includes a living room, bedroom, “full blown kitchen”, bathroom, and laundry room.

Katie, who purchased the home with her husband, had previously lived at the location for three months before they divorced.

However, the couple maintained a friendly relationship, with the TikToker describing them as “each other’s beacons of light”.

Since she already “loved” the property and wanted to spend more time with her children, the decision was easy for Katie.

“We can actually have our babies with us all the time,” she explained to her audience.

In fact, the family celebrate holidays together, with Katie and Megan even wearing matching pyjamas at Christmas, and even attend each other’s family reunions.

Katie said that while divorce “wasn’t an easy ride” she admitted it was “ultimately the one we needed to be on”.

She described herself and Evan as “actually really good friends and great co-parents”.

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The mum added that she “get along really well” with his new wife too.

Both women even poked fun at their similar features, with Katie calling Megan her “successor”.

She also jokingly referred to Evan as her “neighbour” and announced herself as she enters by calling “honey, I’m home”.

Katie even attended her ex-husband’s wedding, sharing that it was an honour to watch him “find happiness”.

“I can compare it to watching your annoying little brother grow up and find and fall for the woman of his dreams,” she said.

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  • Set hurt and anger aside.
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She added that her “baby daddy did so good” in finding a partner like Megan.

Katie described their close bond as feeling “like sisters”.

TikTok users shared their thoughts on the unique set-up in the comments section.

“She kept saying ‘detached apartment’ but it sounds like that’s a three-person marriage,” wrote one sceptical viewer.

“Every single molecule is screaming NOOOOOOOO!” wrote another follower.

“Hoping the algorithm brings me back before the true crime doc does,” commented a third person.

On other hand, some people were supportive of the living situation.

“My parents did this 25 years ago, my dad and his wife upstairs and my mom downstairs. It was awesome we did everything together. They all get along,” wrote one TikTok user.

“You will never regret giving your kids more time with their family,” agreed another viewer.

“If you guys all get along, why wouldn’t you? Good for the kids, good for everybody,” said one commenter.

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Katie described her relationship with her ex’s new wife Megan as being ‘like sisters’Credit: tiktok/@katiekatekatelynn

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